Selena Gomez knows that the Internet can be a ruthless place, but even with her “kill ‘with Verness” position, she admits that some negativity sometimes reaches – especially when it comes to comments about her weight.
“I am a victim to look at things,” she participated during a joint appearance with her fiancé Benni Blanco On the purpose of Jay Sheti Podcast on March 24.
“It does not add anything to your life. It is very difficult of options, and the people whose history is back. It is like someone who cares about these things with men.”
the Only murders in the building Star, 32, was always open about the fluctuations of her weight due to her diagnosis of lupus, but that did not prevent people from making unwanted comments about her body.
While she learned applause again when necessary, she admits that the audit affects.
“My weight is too,” I continued.
“Everyone has what he says, and he makes me really sad. Not sad – I am not a victim – but I think he made me feel bitter. I really feel guilty to say that. But that’s right.”
Gomez admitted that women in the eyes of the public face a completely different level of judgment.
She said: “This is not a news for anyone who has more intense feelings than their appearance, to what they wear, to everything.”
“When I prepare for an event, 90 percent of the time I say,” I just hope I can take the picture and sit. “
Beyond beauty standards, I also dealt with the pressure of a specific identification box.
“It is the person who is judged. It is the way you are not white enough,” she explained.
“I am not a sufficiently maxican. There are many different things that appear in my face that I can only see.
How do you deal with everything? Simple – it is recorded.
“I am more happier because I do not have it. I had to stop after a while. I still have rest periods because I am a human being and sometimes I read things,” I confessed.
“But I do most of the time I ignore everything. I have nothing on my phone at that moment. So, there are ways to combat it.”
One thing helped her to move in noise? Love – she gets a lot of that from Beni Blanco, who was suggested in December a year after dating.
“He is the only person, you know when you say these gentle things, my love, I believe him.”
“To where I will not believe someone who blows smoke to make me feel good. He says that because he believes in this, and this makes me feel good.”
In a world full of critics, Selena appears to have found a safe space as it could simply be itself.