DAvid Mitchell is likely to be the only male on this planet that can escape the defense of the defense, and this is what he did. And he told Sunday Times. “Because they do this with each other, and they alternate, and this is what men call a conversation.”
In the same interview, Mitchell and his comedian Robert Web are asked how each other presented and support the other through various personal challenges. They are confused about them and get angry a little from the idea that they have discussed such matters. What do men talk to each other, then? “Well, yes,” says Mitchell. “This is a question [my wife] Victoria asked me several times. I really don’t know. “
This insight came in the same week, Rylan Clark Reveal what he learned From hosting his podcast how to be in love. “I never understood when people said,” My partner is my best friend, “I admit.” Because I thought, well, my partner is not my best friend – my best friend is my best friend. I did not get it. But I realized that your partner could be. “
Hmm … Can they do that? As it is completely evident by David Mitchell, men and women communicate in very different ways, if you are in a relationship of two different sexes, the possibilities seem to be stacked against you. Of course, there are exceptions to the base, but if my husband goes to the pub with his companion whose entire family was kidnapped by foreigners, there is a very real opportunity. There were many cases where something huge occurred in the life of one of his friends while I was waiting for the next batch, but it returns home. “Did you not ask?” I will shout, and stick my trading pin. And it will look confusing, somehow.
Meanwhile, I know my friends from the inside to the outside, and vice versa. One of their deepest dreams, hopes and desires, to what they feel towards themselves and everyone who met with it from ever through what they delusion for lunch. We check our continued, we do not have to remind us of inquiring about the conspiracy transformations in the story of each other, we live and breathe together. How can these opposite methods of connecting, transporting and receiving them successfully, so that both parties get what they need?
But it may be larger and more important than the issue of whether it could be the best friends with your partner is if it is a good idea in the first place. Isn’t this a lot of pressure on one person, and also a very big shift from romance towards his colleagues in the room? I love aside, I love my husband, we are friendly, but I am not sure that it better A friend, and I do not want him to be. He feels dependent on participation and isolated. Stepford, Tradwife, such as we may share a toothbrush, or worse, e -mail address.
Then I asked my husband about his best friend, and answered him, and he fell on me, so he surprised me. He thought for a second, then gave a male name. He was the best man at our wedding, so the clues were there, but I was strangely injured. “Not I am?” I explained, in the event of mixing me and this man or something like that.
“Well, I’m not yours, am I?” He replied, immediately five people and one cat would definitely reeling on the waiting list. All of the justice. Except … it turned out that although my husband is not for me The best friend, and I am fine with that, I want to be for him. You want and expect. Oh, and I am increasingly angry for not being, the longer the duration of thinking about it. Welcome to marriage.
The dirty methods with which the sexes are associated with are also the reason that widows are “happier” than widows after the husband’s death, Professor Harvard, author and world of His Excellency Arthur Si Brooks says. “The dirt does this in general in general, and men do it very badly, and part of the reason is that-these data are disputed but more or more correct in a way or less -60 % of 60-year-old men say that their best friend is their wife, 30 % of their wives say that their best friend is their husband.” Explain. “Women have more relationships, and they have closer and deeper love relationships with unrelated relatives and adult children, usually more than a husband.”
My strange husband. It is clear that I will have to die in front of him, though, to teach him the mistake of his ways. If he dares to contact me, his best friend in his praise, do not hesitate to get to know.