I am a woman in my country The fifties were with my husband for decades. We have always had a wonderful sexual life and I was able to climax very easily, often without stimulating the clitoris. During a period full of juveniles for the family Two years ago, sexual desire and my ability to peak disappeared, Although they eventually returned. A few months ago, I had a health crisis, which resulted in a little disabled my participationOn one side format. Although I recovered well, I have once again suffering from loss of sexual desire and sexual sensation.
We are still having sex regularly and I enjoy intimacy. I can peak With clitoris stimulation, it takes a long time and can be almost physical painful. I really miss the vaginal sexual intercourse and the release they brought. Although I am from a menopause era, I have no clear symptoms and Hormone testing is naturally returned.
I felt very emotional and frustrated during the recovery periodSo, so I wonder if the pressure is the problem. It was my appreciation for my self I was affected by my physical disability, but my gentle husband makes me always feel the desire.
It is known that stress affects a person’s sexual activity at different stages, including desire, orgasm and physical excitement. Fatigue and pain can be from the perpetrators, and many types of diseases or physical conditions can be. Psychological issues or mood disorders such as depression and anxiety may also affect a person’s ability to experience fun in having sex, boycotting a love process, and even leading to sexual disorders.
The health problems you face can affect your ability to euphoria as you are used to, so it is useful to ask the doctor to check factors such as nerve damage-as it helps you to understand the possible sexual effects of any medications you may take. I can understand your sadness and your feeling of loss in the inability to try your preferred peak type, but if you can find the specific cause and treat it, this may be possible again.
Since the clitoris is the most important center in most women’s bodies – and “vaginal sexual intercourse” tends to occur when locations allows the optimal clitoris connection – it will be useful to try different sites to engage your clitoris to achieve the maximum effect. But first, set priorities to find tools to deal with stress and start implementing them.
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